The first time: Electro sex, anal sex, bondage, spanking!

The first time: Electro sex, anal sex, bondage, spanking!

Your heart races, your hormones explode, and the butterflies celebrate a wild gang-bang party in your tummy: The first time. Oh, yes, what an exciting experience! But the best thing is, that after that first time you can have zillions more "first times", which can be even more exciting and can also spark completely new passions. So, that those first times get really cool... ...uh ... hot, we have put together a few little tips and tricks for electro sex, anal sex, spanking and bondage.  

The first time: electro sex

Electro sex is not just sex with electronically operated sex toys (which alone are already completely capable of transforming entire bedroom worlds) but even more tingling! Electro sex means sex with E-Stim-Toys: These are dildos, geisha balls, anal plugs, penis rings or dilators that emit electrical impulses, i.e. e-stimulation, via special electrodes. This is - of course - only as intensive as you want it to be and also, the E-Stim-Toys are all very easy to use. The electrodes are perfectly and almost invisibly integrated into the smoothly insertable toys made of medical silicone and emit light electrical impulses to the skin and especially to the erogenous zones. To the moist vaginal walls, the sensitive anus, the stiff nipples or to the highly sensitive skin of the pulsating penis. Whether nipple clamps or anal chains: no matter where these highly specialized tools deliver their fiery impulses, you can expect passionate ecstasy, multiple orgasms and never before experienced stimulation explosions.

The world of electro sex toys 

If the topic fascinates or stimulates you already while reading and you can hardly wait for your first electro sex experience, then you should dig even deeper, discover the various toys and let the ecstasy begin: Electro sex for beginners  


The first time: anal sex  

Whether guy-girl, guy-guy, or girl-girl: Anal sex can bring every taker to undreamt-of climaxes and also, whoever is behind these ecstatic feelings, can have loads of fun. But especially with the first time anal sex, it is important to proceed especially carefully and gently. Unexpected surprise visits to the anus are of little use, often take away all the joy and can also be unpleasant to painful!

First tip: Try to approach this particularly sensitive erogenous zone with long foreplays and discover what is going on in, on and around the anus without penetration. With intensive anilingus ((-> link)), skillful finger exercises or games with smaller electro-buttplugs ((-> link)) the back entrance is bound to become a wide-open door to heaven.

The first time anal sex – how to make it perfectly

Discover everything else that is important to make your first time anal sex unforgettable, or which electro sex toys make the anus your new favourite spot, in our detailed Anal Sex Guide  


The first time: spanking  

Spanking is a good proof that you don't have to use the backdoor to have fun: it's also enough if you just give or get the whip. Because the butt, no matter how round it may be, is a part of the body that is very well supplied with blood and therefore very sensitive. It's worth trying it! Spanking sounds too much like "violence" or SM for some people, but that is not mandatory - it can be, but doesn't have to. You can start your first spanking very gently and bring your buns into a fiery mood with light blows.

Thus, the entire pelvic region gets into heat and the front-side soon feels like more! When spanking for the first time, you can also use objects: from a paddle to a fly swatter to a riding crop, everything is possible. Spanking can be so much fun because it triggers an erotic pain, which contains a lot of passion and also stimulates the lustful play with submission and dominance.

You’re into spanking – but afraid to ask for it?

Our tip: Just read this small spanking chapter with your partner to find a first introduction to the topic. Don't be shy: The only cheeks that should turn red when spanking are the ones on your ass! ;-)  


The first time: bondage

More and more fans are caught up in bondage because of its passionate binding techniques, lustful torture and sexual ecstasy through the game of dominance and submission. A wonderful and exciting world for all who need an unforgettable "first time" in their sex and love life.

The term bondage means as much as servitude and this hits exactly the lustful core of this sexual practice: In bondage, one person verbally and physically dominates another, who submissively surrenders to all seductions, love games and punishments of the so-called "Top" or "Dom". The "Bottom" or "Sub" enjoys being at the mercy of others and the loss of control through fixations and restrictions of their own freedom of movement. Both roles can of course be played by both sexes!

Bondage for Beginners: moderate masochism

The narrow - but very sexy - line between pleasure-pain and really getting hurt is a challenge, especially when bondage is done for the first time. Here you can study the art of erotic bondage and then get started yourself: The perfect bondage guide  


First time vs next time

Finally, one more general tip: If you are experiencing electro sex, anal sex, bondage, spanking - or whatever else you would like to try - the first time and you don't immediately experience the highest climaxes and most pleasurable moments of love: keep calm and try again! As we all know, even the "important" first time can go wrong. Our tip: Talk about what might not have been perfect, give constructive feedback and ask yourselves whether this or that thing really suits you. Not everything is for everyone - but you should definitely try them all. It is worth it.
And now go and have fun with electrifying shackling, gagging, penetrating or spanking.